Have been around for a while to know that, nothing in life that has value will be dropped on your lap because you seem to be pretty or handsome..

I on one occasion heard a presenter say;

“The richest place on planet earth is the graveyard, since lying there are people who died along with their song still inside them. Inside there are people who had huge potential, however due to a lack of self self-belief, as well as a low self esteem, they masked it and died with it”

You might not be the next bill gates, you might not even be the next Oprah Winfrey, except you can be all you have being created to be.

It’s hilarious how every other creatures of nature such as dogs and cats,all act out the true nature for which they where fashioned, but it appears we human beings in spite of being more intellectual , we occasionally decide to be someone or something else.

Why? We are scared of disappointment, and most times of developing to become who we know we can become.

Growth requires responsibility, which is one of the reasons why the majority of people shun it due to a fake notion, of it being extremely hard or hard labor.

To me hard work is living a life below the average you know you are competent enough to live.

Hard labor is trying to be like your neighbor Joe who loves to nod his head whenever he laughs.

Hard work is trying to be anything other than yourself, because it won’t come across natural, you have to plan plus act it out.

If you serious about improving your self esteem, you have to make a conscious decision to drop the act and that demands courage.

To develop more self-belief in yourself you have to attempt some new things, take on several new challenges, open yourself up to be criticized, be ready to pick yourself up if you fail,and feel like disappearing back into your shell.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail the safe didn't. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream .